The Nightmare of Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissism

INTRODUCTIONI have been watching the Johnny Depp / Amber Heard trial in its entirety, live as it streams. It’s a horrifying thing to watch, from my perspective, and you’ll learn why after reading this. There were two incidents in particular that triggered panick in my gut that I hadn’t felt since 1998. I’m going toContinue reading “The Nightmare of Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissism”

Change Is Not Always Good

When I worked at LinkedIn from 2015-2016, I has the pleasure of bearing witness to the idiocy of the young developers and workers. Maybe this is why they ended up purging everyone over 40 who wasn’t in management. It was something of a concern to me that they would be so excited about a newContinue reading “Change Is Not Always Good”

Connection Criteria

INTRODUCTIONSA part of me wants to avoid human connections at all cost, save for the ones that I have already. They’re not toxic or dangerous. Gaining these friends was no small feat, as it required me to go through a sea of horrific people. On average, I gained one genuine friend every decade. Based onContinue reading “Connection Criteria”

Relationships and Moving Too Fast

INTRODUCTIONI think that everyone has heard the phrase “moving too fast” when talking about relationships. Typically, this is within the context of romantic relationships, with regard to sexual activity. This is a distraction. Having sex with someone before you know them is very risky. You don’t know what’s going on with them, and they don’tContinue reading “Relationships and Moving Too Fast”

The Argument for Being Alone

INTRODUCTIONWhen we are young, we get sold so much garbage from our parents and others in our lives. We absorb these questionable things into our minds, into our psyche, and we then allow those things to run in the background to help us with life’s decisions. Those untruths build up a narrative. Narratives can makeContinue reading “The Argument for Being Alone”

A Word About Flying Monkeys, and More Details on My Narcissist Experiences

NOTE: I give a political example of Narcissism and Flying Monkeys early in this document. However, I get into other examples beyond that. This is NOT a political post. That said, when writing about Narcissists and Flying Monkeys, this particular event in American History is impossible to ignore. INTRODUCTIONIn the past, I have written aboutContinue reading “A Word About Flying Monkeys, and More Details on My Narcissist Experiences”

What Hurts, What I Loved, and What I Miss

INTRODUCTIONFor the past 13 months, I’ve been dealing with the fallout of a failed relationship. There are things that hurt, but often times they are not what we think they are. Today, I am going to write about what hurt, what I loved, and what I miss. For those who are not up-to-speed on this,Continue reading “What Hurts, What I Loved, and What I Miss”

Leave Dem Wimminz Be

I’ll be 57 on 12/3. It is around this time every year where I will do a retrospective on my life, or maybe just on some elements. Sometimes I’ll write about it, other times not. Today’s element of focus is women, my relationship with them, and what could very well be my future with regardContinue reading “Leave Dem Wimminz Be”

If I Had a Dating Profile

INTRODUCTIONRecently, Catherine and I were talking about the idea of using dating apps. For those who are new, Catherine was my girlfriend of 20 years, from 1999 to 2019. In late 2019, we went through a break-up. An old girlfriend of mine [Annie] from 1982 then moved in, and the three of us ventured intoContinue reading “If I Had a Dating Profile”

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